Christian dating for fat old people

Meet Women at Spas

Men, if you are looking for a woman, go to a spa. I speak at Rancho La Puerta in Tecate, Mexico, several times a year. The place is chock full of wonderful women, mostly over 40. Let me tell you, the few men who attend have amazing choices. I don't understand why more mature men do not take advantage of spas; they're fabulous opportunities for singles.

When you hang out informally with women and get to know them in classes and over group dinners, you have a great chance to become friendly without too much pressure. From that experience, you would make an easier transition to dating.

Meet at a Volunteer Gig

If you're looking for someone with a big heart, go to a place where big-hearted people go: Volunteer at a children's hospital, an environmental cleanup, a Habitat for Humanity build, or a political campaign. Not everyone will be single, of course, but usually, many singles also attend specially announced events.

If you don't meet anyone on the first couple times you volunteer, pick a new outlet for your energies and see that one works better. You're doing good works; it's fine if you do them in a few new places to meet a few new faces.

Meet on Organized Trips

Many college or university alumni trips that happen when families can't come—after the school year starts, during winter and spring (but not the summer)—are popular with older singles. Chances are, you could meet someone on one of these vacations, especially if they are educational tours or trips with a volunteer component.

Of course there is always the chance you could meet The One in a supermarket or library. That, however, takes a lot more guts. In those circumstances, too, it's hard to know whether the person you meet is actually single.

Do I believe you can find your one and only? Absolutely. Do I believe this can be an amazing person, truly worthy of your hopes and dreams? I do. Do I think it will be easy? Actually, no. But like anything, if you work hard at it, you will succeed.

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