How to know you are dating the right guy

Life would be so much easier if you knew without a doubt that the person you're currently dating is the right one for you. It would definitely save you the trouble of having to waste your time and get your heart broken by all the wrong ones. But since life isn't as straightforward as many of us would like it to be, you may need to rely on signs, logic, and intuition, to determine whether your partner is really right for you or not. If you've been having second thoughts about your relationship, experts say there are a few telling signs that you've met your soulmate.

As great as your relationship can be, second thoughts can hit you out of nowhere. For instance, you may be six months into your relationship and realize that things have already become "too comfortable." When that happens, it can have you wondering if maybe the sparks faded quickly for a reason.

But as Annie Wright, LMFT, licensed psychotherapist and owner and clinical director of Evergreen Counseling tells Bustle, having second thoughts is totally common.

"Contrary to what Disney movies, Rom Coms, and most pop songs teach us, love and being with the 'right' partner doesn't always look like fireworks or being completely certain about the other," Wright says. Instead, many of us will feel a certain degree of ambivalence, doubt, or have second thoughts. "It's important to know that you're not alone in this nor does this necessarily mean that your relationship is the wrong one for you," she says.

So if you're at the point where you're questioning your relationship, here are some signs your partner is actually the right one for you, according to experts.