Adult dating advice forum

It all depends upon what you want from a same-sex relationship. Knowing what you want to get out of this relationship will end up saving you a lot of headaches and heartaches. Do you want something long-term or short-term? Sometimes you won't know what you want starting out, and unfortunately the only way to find out is through first hand experience.

As WizardWalter said, communication is extremely important in order to be on the same page about everything. It's also important to get as much information about the one you're with as you can early on, both verbally and through body language. Find out what his stances are in the issues important with you, and also find out a bit about any financial situation he might have if you're looking for something long-term. If the answers you get mesh well with your ideals, that's great. If they don't, weigh the pros and cons of possible compromises you might have to make. If the cons outweigh the pros, then it's time to think about ending things.